13 things you should never forget to remember:)

1. After the end of Everything,it’s just you,your thoughts and your mind left to decide on everything which works way better if u trust yourself with things 

2. Not having so many friends isnt “uncool” ; it’s just being wise enough to pick few who you know you won’t have to let go

3. Love yourself cuz why not?

4. Love what life brings you,gives you,and hold on to it like it’s the last thing you will ever be able to touch,feel or cry over even if it’s a bad thing cuz when you are at your lowest, your decisions matter and when trusting Yourself,you can handle all the bad things like a piece of cakee.

5. What you think about yourself is 10000 times more important than what the world thinks of you.

6. Remember to Appreciate all the lil things in life ’cause you don’t wanna regret every moment of your life after you lose it.

7. Whether it’s a mini van or a Ferrari ,be grateful u have something to take u places.

8. Fat,tall,short,thin,ugly,pretty are just a set of letters that don’t have to matter all the time

9. Be yourself,don’t ever play a fake you just to impress others; it’s definitely not gonna take you anywhere

10. Make decisions yourself don’t let others hate affect you.

11. Bullies and sadists are people who need serious counselling in life you don’t gotta worry abt them ; forget their existence,focus on yours.

12. Life can make you a celebrity in a day; don’t ever lose that selfless attitude and lose humanity which is what makes you human.

13. After all, You are the master of your fate and the captain of your soul.

So these are just a few things that got me, a 13 year old,going for a complete academic year and this blog has helped me so very much; I can’t express in words how cheerful I am these days and so very grateful ’cause few months back I wouldn’t have been able to console myself and get back into the game of life which I had been defeated at several times.

Spread Positivity like how a forest spreads fire🔥❤

With luv,

amateurxblogger

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Fat pride

Please don’t judge the title thank you 😂

So recently,I attended this workshop on personality development ’cause I got a spot for free and I was like why waste it so I ended up going …

It’s like this 5 hour long class for 9 days straight.I didn’t attend every single day as the workshop to be honest wasn’t very effective and it didn’t stick to the topic.

But those 9 days even were like hell. Hell meaning High School as portrayed in movies.I wasn’t bothered by the bullies and as much as I wanted to go ,slap them and give them a piece of my mind,I decided to stay quite ’cause they did just like little stuff for fun which isn’t something I appreciated much but okay..

So this one certain incident wanted me to blog abt accepting yourself/myself/ourselves.

So during break time,I saw this girl crying and I really wanted to help so I approached her and she said she was sad because few guys made fun of her as she was fat. Her exact words were “They teased me for being fat”

I gave her this little talk and chit chatted with her for a while but this made me realise something

I learnt two things in this 15 minute incident.

First,if it were some other person there and personally I’ve given talks like that to many people who cry for being called fat and their exact words would be ” they r making fun of me cuz they think I’m fat” But this girl, she accepted herself ,she did. She stressed on “being fat” .Maybe we should all just accept who we are,our weaknesses,our strengths.We all have good and bad in us…but it is how we bring it out and show ourselves strong.

Second, I am not fat. 

But some people think being called “fat” is like being called “black” in front of a large crowd of people.

No.no.no.

Are you fat? Yes or no I don’t care.AT ALL. 

You are beautiful just the way you are.And I can tell ’cause all u need to do is smile.

The whole world might not have this mindset.And we can’t tell the ENTIRE world but we can do little things to change this diabolical attitude in people.

Either you give them time to change or YOU change.

And by changing yourself,I don’t mean get a liposuction done the next day,…

I mean ,take pride in being fat.

Make yourself look supreme and powerful in front of goofs making fun of you.

“Hahahhaha look at that fat girl” “Hahahaha look at that fat boy”

Widen your mouth and smirk like crazy ,let’s see how they go beyond that.

Accept yourself for who you are.

Also,thank you so much for the support I specially want to thank Zainab Zahid,if you are reading this,you might not know but your sweet comments are what keeps me going.

With luv,

amateurxblogger

 Stage Fear

It’s funny how I never find a nice way to start a blog bless me.

Ever felt like it’s very easy for you to perform on stage because you have practiced A LOT?

People who usually have stage fear as far as I know,either have no confidence or are over confident.

Except my case is a little different!

I am confident just enough.

I practice day and night.

And I perform often.

But it’s just that moment when I got on stage .

I see all the people.

And my fear is not a huge huge huge one but still like this arrow passing through my heart.

I don’t completely lose my confidence but I start trembling like CRAZY.

Do you have stage fear?

Do u perform often?

If you do have stage fear,what are your tips to overcome them?

Mind sharing them with me? 😉

Please don’t leave me looking all lonely in the comment box pretty please with sugar on top!!!!!!

Also guys, I’m planning on writing a long long long blog about being “socially awkward” and if it gets positive reaction,maybe I’ll convert into an anonymous book ?! 

Thanking you all for 50+ follows agn, and your wonderful wonderful support which keeps me going everyday xx

With love,

amateurxblogger

Second chances?

Mmm I’m very iffy about this topic.

I have given second chances for many many things but only like some have turned out to be worth it.

I personally feel that second chances should be limited to things I trust.

Second chances on participating in some kind of a challenge? Done

Second chances on trying again after u fail? Done

Second chances for people? 

Idk.

I am like this person who believes in forgiving Everyone for the mistakes they commit.

And it may sound like a nice thing to do.

But, I very recently realised that everytime I give second chances for a person ,I have to think twice too and be wise at the same time.

Especially in terms of friendship.

I became like really good friends with this person who messes up everytime ’cause I just simply can’t tell,it is probably her nature.

Her attitude.

Her humanity.

Her actions.

Her way of reacting things.

It’s all just so very annoying.

She just goes on betraying people to form like a squad and her ultimate aim is like to be the “coolest” kid of our grade.

And it’s so annoying because I don’t see how being less human is cool like seriously.

(Wow this is turning into a gossip page where I don’t have to worry about the secret spreading eeks)

I have given her several chances and every time she just apologizes and does the same Thing over and over again.

And I just have to accept the fact that some people are never gonna change.

But the difficult part of accepting this is that there was a time when I loved her.

I was also distracted by all the stupid stuff she did.

And I only ended up like her for a while when I realised I was wrong.

Don’t let people change you.

Sometimes,you just have let go.

The more number of chances u give on a worthless friendship,the more it’s gonna hurt u when u finally plan to let go.

I am done with her.

With love,

amateurxblogger

Feminism vs Humanism

I’m not gonna debate between feminism and humanism or anything like that hehe I just really liked the title😂

Now these two are related in few terms.

Feminism.

I am a feminist,but not like a very ardent one.

I believe that there should be equality between women and men.

Humanism.

Humanity. The very first thing WE should have! Like please.

Without humanity,I don’t understand the point of us existing and do nothing but be some diabolical piece of shit.

There are so many young girls today, I have observed on social media , who are mislead about the term “feminism”

And in turn,become feminazis.

They want to overthrow and outshoot men.

I don’t know how to explain things cause I am myslef part of this generation and my fellow teens around the world are getting the concept all wrong.

There are also people in my school who pretend to be feminists just to look cool and call people “sluts” and “whores” ,again , JUST TO LOOK COOL!

“HEY SLUT HOW YE DOIN” 

They might think it’s okay to do that but it can hurt people very badly.

If everything including voicing out your opinion,having an open mind,and sometimes even talking to the opposite sex is termed “slut” then I just don’t know what to say.

Countless number of people could be offended by this.

Women supporting feminism sometimes lose humanism in the process and it’s very very wrong.

Putting down other people is not going to take you ANYWHERE.

Im pretty sure I have a blog post about sadists yeah I do gosh.

And worst, feminists who are fair ,when losing a debate end up being feminazis.

It’s just so very sad how people get easily drawn to not-very-nice things.

Even if a person is at his/her’s lowest,they deserve an amount of respect.

Even a beggar deserves respect.

Cuz you might never know,one day u will be in that position and only then will you realise this.

But you don’t have to take it that far.

Showing a slight amount of empathy isn’t going to hurt anyone.

Everyone around you,is human and deserves respect.

Feminazis have a very wrong concept of showing respect only to women just to win the sadness of the rest of the society,

But no.

Each and every soul around u deserves the respect you expect to be given to yourself.

Being nice to everyone might not be possible but stopping yourslef from being really rude to everyone is realistic and humans need to make that happen.

Always think twice before what you do and say.

Slut-shaming sucks.

Feminist? Nope. I would like to refer to myself as Human.

With love,

amateurxblogger

Music- My escape from reality.

yes.

Everyone loves music.
Well some might not ( I personally haven’t met anyone who hates music) ,but nevermind:)

To start off, I am an amateur music compiler.

Yes I make mash ups and compose music from my keyboard.

But I don’t exactly “mix and compose” music so yeah I’m not a DJ either! Eeks. I am one confused soul for sure.

Coming back to the story (I didn’t even start one yet but okay ),

As u guys all know…There have been so many things going on and yes I’ll try my best to fit it all in a post one day 🙂

And there is nothing I could possibly do to distract myself and think about something else!

I had taken a break from this music stuff earlier,and then only few weeks back, I realised that I shouldn’t stop.

So I made one compilation and I it was actually played on the radio.

I was like SO SO SO happy like I was literally in tears.

Only then did I realise that I hadn’t thought about all the bad stuff going on.

All I did was basically keep myself busy and work towards a goal I’ve always wanted to achieve!

Also music, it gives me life!

Whatever the kind.

Old people might think rock/rap is just some punky funky music for the younger generation,but it all has its own effects.

The lyrics of certain songs,they make me feel so much better and forget about all that’s going on!

I’ll put up a post later on with my all time favorites up to date!

Even if a song that I like and I’m listening to doesn’t contain lyrics I can relate to,its beautiful!

So yes,if you wanna escape from bad happenings,simply keep yourself busy. But remember,busy by doing something you love to.

Music,Books and TV shows are my escape from my Reality -which apparently sucks.

What about you?

What is your escape from reality?

What’s your favourite song at the moment?

Comment down below!!!

With love,

amateurxblogger.

I’m alive + my brother.

well yeah.

A lot of things happened in two months and I don’t think I can fit it all in one blog.

But yeah,I would surely introduce you to my brother.

My brother and I have a very… Complicated relationship:/

We have had our ups and downs but now we are in a position where we don’t even talk to each other.

The only times he ever depends on me is when he requires a glass of water or wants me to switch off the fan.

At most times,he gets so annoyed seeing me,he starts shouting at me and asks me why I was born.

I can’t even find out if he really even loves me, because when I look at him , it’s pretty obvious he doesn’t like me.at all.

But like most stories,being a avid reader I must know,deep down inside in situations like this,we know that the character loves his/her sister or whoever it might me depending on the story.

But here,when I even think about it,it just reminds me that ,that is all fiction or something that happens only in stories and to lucky humans unlike me.

There was a time,he used to love me,I guess.

We had lots of fun.

We used to play together.Now the sound of it even sounds like a dream that doesn’t come true.

Getting our arms broken by playing in a bedroom shop,watching TV 24/7 and lying to our parents, playing cricket at night on our bunk bed.

Good old days.

I have not given up,on my brother and the belief that I have that one day he will love me for who I am.

Sometimes, you can’t always get what you want.

All I ever want to deal with my family problems right now,is a brother who would understand me.

But I know I can’t have it.

I can’t make this blog really long,so I will blog about everything else that’s going on later.

Life,does not always give you what you want and does not always take everything you don’t want.

You have to deal with,not give up,and keep believing in yourself.

With love,

amateurxblogger