Mmm I’m very iffy about this topic.
I have given second chances for many many things but only like some have turned out to be worth it.
I personally feel that second chances should be limited to things I trust.
Second chances on participating in some kind of a challenge? Done
Second chances on trying again after u fail? Done
Second chances for people?
I am like this person who believes in forgiving Everyone for the mistakes they commit.
And it may sound like a nice thing to do.
But, I very recently realised that everytime I give second chances for a person ,I have to think twice too and be wise at the same time.
Especially in terms of friendship.
I became like really good friends with this person who messes up everytime ’cause I just simply can’t tell,it is probably her nature.
Her way of reacting things.
It’s all just so very annoying.
She just goes on betraying people to form like a squad and her ultimate aim is like to be the “coolest” kid of our grade.
And it’s so annoying because I don’t see how being less human is cool like seriously.
(Wow this is turning into a gossip page where I don’t have to worry about the secret spreading eeks)
I have given her several chances and every time she just apologizes and does the same Thing over and over again.
And I just have to accept the fact that some people are never gonna change.
But the difficult part of accepting this is that there was a time when I loved her.
I was also distracted by all the stupid stuff she did.
And I only ended up like her for a while when I realised I was wrong.
Don’t let people change you.
Sometimes,you just have let go.
The more number of chances u give on a worthless friendship,the more it’s gonna hurt u when u finally plan to let go.
I am done with her.