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I’ll be posting many pictures of little things that bring happiness and spread positivity…So would mean a lot if you all followed!
So let me begin.
Where I’m from,wearing crop tops and shorts is not encouraged one bit.
If you lived where I live,you would hear the following,well pretty often I would say…
“Your knees aren’t covered wear a pant with your dress”
“Why is your belly-button showing???Do you want to get raped?”
“You can’t wear this,no,you are attracting all the “tomdickhairy-s” around”
“Why don’t you wear a top which has sleeves?”
“Listen to me,you can’t show too much skin alright?This world is not a place where you can wear anything and go skipping about humming to your favourite tune.Its not a romcom movie,it’s the real world”
Well,I’ll tell you what,
You CAN go around wearing anything,skipping about and humming to your favourite tune.
The people who expect you to follow rules on what you have to wear,
I completely understand if it’s your mom or your grandma,ignoring is pretty hard.
But you can wear what you want and if that attracts attention from “tomdickhairy-s”,you show ‘em what you got.
Women should stop changing the type of clothes they wear.Let them do whatever they want.
Instead,why can’t people come together and change the minds of other people?
Is that very difficult?
Harassment,abuse,rape and whatnot…
Aren’t they all just ideas instilled in the minds of people?
Everything that is done to women in my country is wrong.
In capital letters,WRONG.
We have inequality in incomes,people throwing the girl child away as soon as she is born because of some stupid superstition,girls in villages being denied education from their very own parents,girls who are blamed for getting raped,5-year old children being murdered by their own parents because they can’t afford to raise them,abandonned children on the roads,child marriages everywhere.
How could the mindset of people be ever more wrong?
A child’s,speaking for male and female,life is ruined by child marriages even though declared illegal.
50% of the women in today’s world are indirectly being restricted to what men enjoy.
Am I speaking for women’s rights and putting down men’s rights?
Until and unless this world is going to change its mind ,
We women should never stop fighting for what we deserve.
Don’t let anyone tell you what to do.
Girl Power ain’t never going to die.
Until next time,